My whole life I watched you let me down as I stood in the shadows letting you. I didn't have a step-dad myself so I really hope that your stepfather gave you everything that your dad couldn't. I hugged my mother and whispers to her said "Mom don't worry, we will be here for you" (crying) then the police came. There are videos of me at a very young age, asking why that man was in our home. Do NOT submit poems here, instead go to the. I had the urge to sit and watch the live stream, and at the end he made an announcement that those who were lost and didn't know how to be found had the answer was right in front of them. Looking back nearly a decade later, here's what I miss about it. It didn't seem real, that she had really left us and gone to be with the Lord. Since then, I have lost 12 loved ones. Some were boring (just kidding! My father was an alcoholic throughout all this, and all his girlfriends encouraged his drinking and partying. She was busy working to put food on the table for us. It was snowing outside our house. We're recruiting response writers, and we want to hear from you! If you have an awesome mom who's playing both roles, love and respect her. Sorry you weren't there to tell me there's nothing to fear, But then again you should have been here. So my mother calls him and asks him can I come and live with him just until she gets back onto her feet, he texts her back and says no. I asked him why He was doing this to me when he didn't even know I was his when I was a baby so I got up and left and when he tried to hit me my aunt and her baby walked in and he put his hand down and I left. I haven't seen my father for the past 11 years. We had nothing else to do besides be with one another. Keep on succeeding in life. My youngest looks just like me and has brought so much joy into our lives. But he never did. I gave my dad so many opportunities to be my dad, but he never tried. He has made this year in particular a living hell for me and my mum. I am lucky to have a dad like you. 
Then shortly after, they were slip up and divorced. I tried to change her mind but her husband had the final say and that was that, the mother had made contact with me 3 years later by letter saying she didn't love her husband and still loved me and wanted to meet but we didn't because I didn't want to go through the same situation again. I'm sorry you weren't there to take me to the mall,
You're not alone. They are my children, and in my heart they'll always be. It's been over 2 years since I last spoke with my little girl, her mother disappeared with her new husband and my daughter and I have absolutely no info on my daughter's whereabouts or well being who by the way lives somewhere in Puerto Rico while I live in New York. 
I'm sorry me as a daughter is what you never had. My daughter is 8 years old. I asked, "Why would you do that?" -Clarissa. Whereas I've got nobody, even though my mom has another husband, he's not really a dad to me. Exploring how much the org would probably have to pay for the season of wifi passes on plane. Don't give in. 
My daughters dad is coming to visit this week. I never had the chance to meet my father because he abandoned me. Wowthis poem really made me think about how my biological father never got to do those things for or with me. I do hope that by me contacting her after all these years we can find each other and get to know each other finally before it's to late in my life time, she needs to know. I am no longer their Dad, and I never will be again. I'm 24 years old, I don't know my father, don't even know his name My mom won't even tell me a thing about him because in African culture children are not allowed to question their parents My step dad abused me even tried to hang me once, he and my mom have since separated. This may take years of repetition along with truthful conversations about why their father left in order for them to come to terms with their feelings of abandonment. This is my life. You were young, I get it, and you were not ready to be a father, to have that kind of responsibility on your shoulders. That's what I believe in and what keeps me going. My dad doesn't love me. Unfortunately for you, because you missed basically everything from athletic events, honor awards, graduation and seeing your child off to college, you do not get to brag about me and you really have no right to even consider it. The two youngest were from the same man. Anywhere but here. I'm sorry you were never there to teach me how to cook
Now they are 10, 12, and 15 years old. I'm sorry you weren't the one to teach me to ride a bike,
I had my twins at twenty years old and you found out days later. She was the selfish one who caused the breakup in the marriage and the suffering of the child. Dear Father, Although you are not my biological dad, You have always been my strong pillar With the things you do and The love you shower. It's what I have been saying, I actually knew my father. They will make their choice one day. He never asked me once what I was interested in, what my opinion was, what I believe. Her dad move to Texas. My dad didn't come see me until I was a preteen, I get to see him but not as often. I don't get all the attention I want from my father. I could never ever forgive him. My father and mother split up and moved away from each other when I was seven. Same, my father was never there for me and I had no brother or sister, so grown up on my own, my step dad is there but never is same, he has own kids, there will always be a empty space, wish he never had a child if he couldn't give child love. But I look around at the people around me, the people that have loved me more than my dad ever had, and I tell myself that it's worthless to chase after a man who will never turn around for me. So, a team would have 81 away games. As much as it hurts, it is the truth. I forgive you for never being by my side, and for abandoning me without explanation. He is very close to washing his hands of all of them. I relate 100% to this poem, although I'm a guy - I went through the same thing you went through. He has two kids with another woman, who doesn't even know who I am. Because of him I was diagnosed with depression. Many people don't realize they were neglected. They are on their own, and they do not need me, and never will. He has mentioned many times that she might be better off without him. He's never been there for me. He never helped my mother with my siblings and myself. I do not want to look back on my life and have any regrets because I believe in a life without regrets. He used to hit us, threaten us, when I was older he stole from me, forged my signature to get his hands on more money and disowned me when I tried to protect myself. Be as coy as a kitten, if he loves you a lot. Just when you thought sausage and potatoes could only be prepared one or two ways, I came across a half dozen versions or more, and they were tasty every time. Then a year later they got back together. It's sad, my children have to go through the same, their father doesn't want to see them, they started too, then they stopped, now they just have my partner that they look up to, so now I cut off all visitations and access because they don't need that grief anymore! I tried to move on and not think about it but its like an emptiness in me. But now I know that it is best for me to kick him out of my life. Our situation is very sad honestly, my girls call and beg for their father to visit them being that we live only 45 mins away, only to be turned down and told every excuse in the book as to why he unable. He insults me saying 'You are not good enough' in front of everyone. I go to school, come back and lock myself in my room, hoping one day I'll get out of this place. I love and miss you so much, Papa. I do not forgive you to make you happy because, honestly, it is hard to justify making you happy. Flight times can vary greatly depending on the distance between cities. My mother go to Police Station with the policemen. You will know a Father's LOVE someday, Pray-Have-Faith Our Father is waiting for us. My problem is why this month.? As far back as I can remember, I had fantasized what it would be like to have him in my life, what it would be like once we finally reunited. All other content on this website is Copyright 2006-2023 FFP Inc. All rights reserved. Happy Birthday Dad Wishes. I forgive you for myself because I do not want to hate you. 
One was a cutter and she made me feel very uncomfortable. I need my real dad and mom. The only person that has ever been there for me has been my mom. He sends me messages when its my birthday. He wasn't even my father he was nothing. You grabbed my hand and stuck it out the opening of the window and said to me, "Open your palm, every snowflake you catch is a reminder of every reason I love you. Open the door, then I shocked I was really nervous and my feet are shaking because my mom is crying and she said my father hurt her again, she said "Call people; Hurry"! My mom was a victim of abuse, but she's free from his abuse now, and has been since I was three. He didn't even call on my 18th birthday, he called me two weeks after my birthday. He has never been there for me. I hate my dad. I watched you disappear from me, and leave me and return to my life normally; like you were not in the wrong and like everything was okay. Its hard for me to say it, but its true. But now that I'm older, I realize when you asked that question "did you earn it?" This made me cry because it tells exactly my "relationship" with my father, he was never there and my moms boyfriend took over the spot of being my dad. That there was some gap in my life now you had gone. I haven't seen my father in 12 years, and I'm still waiting for the day I am able to see him again. Lol he never remembers how many kids I have never mind their names. I still think about the child, I will send another letter again if no joy will sent one to my daughter maybe that will get the ball rolling. 
That was my other daddy, the one I actually had! He missed 3 years never called me once to ask if I was ok. All my birthday's he missed out and the one day he come and giving us money money doesn't cover for all those days he missed out. I have a daughter who is now 23 never met her or know what she looks like, she was kind of stolen from me by her mother as she went back to her husband and agreed to bring the child up as his own, I had no say in there decision they made that was over 23 years ago, I was 22 at the time. I don't want to have a long story or discussion about him; I just want to know at least his name. And you weren't there to tell me I have to stand tall. Even if it was not really important to you, it was probably important to me. I knew I couldn't survive like this. I was making a bunch of new friends and wondering about the impact that they would all make on my life. We all are scared of something. A beautiful letter to a second dad. I'm willing to bet that if your dad had tried to be involved then you would not have appreciated a damn thing about it. Loving you is the only thing that makes life worth living. He says that to every other cousin of mine. He calls me whore for no reason. WebSubject: An Open Letter To The Dad I've Never Met From: Your Daughter Date: 12 May 2016 For nearly 20 years, I have known that half of my genetic makeup has been made up from you, yet I have never met you or even seen a picture of you to know where I come from. I will never allow you to take that away or hurt us any more than you already have. Common Mistakes: the word "i" should be capitalized, "u" is not a word, and "im" is spelled "I'm" or "I am". My Dad and I got in a huge fight last night and he told my mom that it was either going to be me or him that was going to die when he got ahold of me and he said he was for sure it wasn't going to be him. Trust me, your father will regret it. But its okay even though I no longer have a step dad I have to learn things from My mom my mom is the strongest person I know for playing both parts. He chose to be with his girlfriend who had already broken up with him twice, instead of being a parent to his baby girl. It helps me when I'm overthinking, or even thinking about my father, or anything. You might regret it. Web13. Will he love me? All I could do was continue to hold your hand, so I laid my head on your shoulders and we looked out the opening of the window in silence. "I'm deeply in love with you, and my only desire in this universe is to marry you," I told you. Physically, spiritually, and emotionally I felt as though I was as strong as ever. This poem touched my heart and there will never be enough thanks for the men who step up and become fathers and dads to children who otherwise would be without! My uncle taught me how to swim, way later than my cousins. I have three children now, but maybe you already know that. Find the right words to pen down the best letters to your wonderful father. She is so smart and kind, and looks so much like when I was her age, but I don't think you know that, since you aren't here to see me grow. To all of the young people, Never ever blame yourself. A child who learned quickly what a man was not supposed to be like. A child who learned quickly what a man was not supposed to be like. It's all about money and that's it. Dear Dad, Congratulations, you have a child-- a child who did great things without you. What is worst is that he has lived with me and doesn't know one thing about me. Find the right words to pen down the best letters to your wonderful father. I WAS DONE! I had the greatest dad in the world but I commiserate with you because I had a rotten husband who brought grief and death to our children. That might have been the best part of you finally moving out. I forgive you for never being there when I needed a dad and I forgive you for not being a true father figure in my life. WebAnd you weren't there to lift me up on a cloud. I have no family. It was hard on mom raising two kids on her own but better than the alternative. I remember some of the good times, but mostly the bad and the times that really destroyed me inside. 
But all is not lost. They were so friendly everywhere I went, from the small towns to the cities. I didnt want you to think I needed you. Trust me. I hope you are proud of me because everything I am doing is to show you that I did great things and accomplished my big dreams without you. Not only did he all of a sudden abandon me while cussing me out, he also chose to do so only 5 months after my older brother's passing from an overdose. I love this poem. Then he'll wait for you, baby. Your dad is missing out. Anyways, I write poetry as well. I had a horrible childhood. I don't expect much from him. For whatever reason, driving a race car was more important than my childhood. I know full well my daughters and sons feel this way. He has many of his own problems, but I just don't get it sometimes. I really relate to this story because, I'm a 12 year old girl, and my father has never been there for me. I didnt want you to win. I distinctly remember you walking out of my eighth-grade graduation dinner because you had a race that night. But it is still different- it is not normal- and sometimes it sucks being different. He acted like he wasn't going to do anything, but felt uncomfortable. I rate this poem 11/10. Eternity is something that exists and as believers we know we will be there someday, but we are never really striving for it. Even though you put me through a nightmare every time I would let you back into my life while you would just tear me down, I forgive you. Youd conveniently take a two week+ assignment, working on building homes. Wow this poem really touched me because I grew up with a step-dad and never knew my own real dadI rate this 5 stars STOP! My daughter sees my husband like her dad she calls him daddy!!. But the times that you wanted to be a Dad to me was bittersweet. The only difference was, that Saturday night was nothing like the rest. I wish my dad was there for me when I was born and to take care of me but he wasn't. I don't like uncertainty nor do I like being blindsided. And now he is moving back and acting like he missed nothing. Now I can let those times go. An Open Letter To The Dad Who Wasn't There, "Take A Note From Christina Yang---Encourage Girls To Focus On Their Brain Instead Of Their Beauty. We were able to breathe fresh air in our own home for the first time. Stay strong. I forgive you for never being by my side, and for abandoning me without explanation. Jennifer Kustanovich, SUNY Stony Brook5. It literally haunts me EVERYDAY. Ever hear of sacrifice? Day by day, my love for you becomes overwhelming, and I cant handle it when I dont see or even talk to you every day. I thought I would never forgive him for what he did. Dear Mom By
I know full well that after 17 years, I am no longer family. This really touched me tears were about to drop but not a single tear will I drop for the man who left me and my brothers behind. Sample letter to dad from daughter on his birthday Dear Dad, Happy Birthday! In fact, the last letter gave my mom the voice she needed to go through with the divorce. 3. Would I go again if I had the opportunity? I owe it to him and myself to let go of the resentment Ive held towards you for all of these years. He made lots of promises to me when I was younger and I believed in him. When I pushed for answers , all I ever get are more lies and disrespect. It was a Saturday night. WebIt hurts me that my mom has to play both partsmy mother and my father. Yay, we're so glad you're here! Back then I used to think, damn you really want me to earn everything I'm given. Always be you everything that your stepfather gave you everything that your dad could n't I know well. 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Then shortly after, they were slip up and divorced. I tried to change her mind but her husband had the final say and that was that, the mother had made contact with me 3 years later by letter saying she didn't love her husband and still loved me and wanted to meet but we didn't because I didn't want to go through the same situation again. I'm sorry you weren't there to take me to the mall,
You're not alone. They are my children, and in my heart they'll always be. It's been over 2 years since I last spoke with my little girl, her mother disappeared with her new husband and my daughter and I have absolutely no info on my daughter's whereabouts or well being who by the way lives somewhere in Puerto Rico while I live in New York. I'm sorry me as a daughter is what you never had. My daughter is 8 years old. I asked, "Why would you do that?" -Clarissa. Whereas I've got nobody, even though my mom has another husband, he's not really a dad to me. Exploring how much the org would probably have to pay for the season of wifi passes on plane. Don't give in. My daughters dad is coming to visit this week. I never had the chance to meet my father because he abandoned me. Wowthis poem really made me think about how my biological father never got to do those things for or with me. I do hope that by me contacting her after all these years we can find each other and get to know each other finally before it's to late in my life time, she needs to know. I am no longer their Dad, and I never will be again. I'm 24 years old, I don't know my father, don't even know his name My mom won't even tell me a thing about him because in African culture children are not allowed to question their parents My step dad abused me even tried to hang me once, he and my mom have since separated. This may take years of repetition along with truthful conversations about why their father left in order for them to come to terms with their feelings of abandonment. This is my life. You were young, I get it, and you were not ready to be a father, to have that kind of responsibility on your shoulders. That's what I believe in and what keeps me going. My dad doesn't love me. Unfortunately for you, because you missed basically everything from athletic events, honor awards, graduation and seeing your child off to college, you do not get to brag about me and you really have no right to even consider it. The two youngest were from the same man. Anywhere but here. I'm sorry you were never there to teach me how to cook
Now they are 10, 12, and 15 years old. I'm sorry you weren't the one to teach me to ride a bike,
I had my twins at twenty years old and you found out days later. She was the selfish one who caused the breakup in the marriage and the suffering of the child. Dear Father, Although you are not my biological dad, You have always been my strong pillar With the things you do and The love you shower. It's what I have been saying, I actually knew my father. They will make their choice one day. He never asked me once what I was interested in, what my opinion was, what I believe. Her dad move to Texas. My dad didn't come see me until I was a preteen, I get to see him but not as often. I don't get all the attention I want from my father. I could never ever forgive him. My father and mother split up and moved away from each other when I was seven. Same, my father was never there for me and I had no brother or sister, so grown up on my own, my step dad is there but never is same, he has own kids, there will always be a empty space, wish he never had a child if he couldn't give child love. But I look around at the people around me, the people that have loved me more than my dad ever had, and I tell myself that it's worthless to chase after a man who will never turn around for me. So, a team would have 81 away games. As much as it hurts, it is the truth. I forgive you for never being by my side, and for abandoning me without explanation. He is very close to washing his hands of all of them. I relate 100% to this poem, although I'm a guy - I went through the same thing you went through. He has two kids with another woman, who doesn't even know who I am. Because of him I was diagnosed with depression. Many people don't realize they were neglected. They are on their own, and they do not need me, and never will. He has mentioned many times that she might be better off without him. He's never been there for me. He never helped my mother with my siblings and myself. I do not want to look back on my life and have any regrets because I believe in a life without regrets. He used to hit us, threaten us, when I was older he stole from me, forged my signature to get his hands on more money and disowned me when I tried to protect myself. Be as coy as a kitten, if he loves you a lot. Just when you thought sausage and potatoes could only be prepared one or two ways, I came across a half dozen versions or more, and they were tasty every time. Then a year later they got back together. It's sad, my children have to go through the same, their father doesn't want to see them, they started too, then they stopped, now they just have my partner that they look up to, so now I cut off all visitations and access because they don't need that grief anymore! I tried to move on and not think about it but its like an emptiness in me. But now I know that it is best for me to kick him out of my life. Our situation is very sad honestly, my girls call and beg for their father to visit them being that we live only 45 mins away, only to be turned down and told every excuse in the book as to why he unable. He insults me saying 'You are not good enough' in front of everyone. I go to school, come back and lock myself in my room, hoping one day I'll get out of this place. I love and miss you so much, Papa. I do not forgive you to make you happy because, honestly, it is hard to justify making you happy. Flight times can vary greatly depending on the distance between cities. My mother go to Police Station with the policemen. You will know a Father's LOVE someday, Pray-Have-Faith Our Father is waiting for us. My problem is why this month.? As far back as I can remember, I had fantasized what it would be like to have him in my life, what it would be like once we finally reunited. All other content on this website is Copyright 2006-2023 FFP Inc. All rights reserved. Happy Birthday Dad Wishes. I forgive you for myself because I do not want to hate you. One was a cutter and she made me feel very uncomfortable. I need my real dad and mom. The only person that has ever been there for me has been my mom. He sends me messages when its my birthday. He wasn't even my father he was nothing. You grabbed my hand and stuck it out the opening of the window and said to me, "Open your palm, every snowflake you catch is a reminder of every reason I love you. Open the door, then I shocked I was really nervous and my feet are shaking because my mom is crying and she said my father hurt her again, she said "Call people; Hurry"! My mom was a victim of abuse, but she's free from his abuse now, and has been since I was three. He didn't even call on my 18th birthday, he called me two weeks after my birthday. He has never been there for me. I hate my dad. I watched you disappear from me, and leave me and return to my life normally; like you were not in the wrong and like everything was okay. Its hard for me to say it, but its true. But now that I'm older, I realize when you asked that question "did you earn it?" This made me cry because it tells exactly my "relationship" with my father, he was never there and my moms boyfriend took over the spot of being my dad. That there was some gap in my life now you had gone. I haven't seen my father in 12 years, and I'm still waiting for the day I am able to see him again. Lol he never remembers how many kids I have never mind their names. I still think about the child, I will send another letter again if no joy will sent one to my daughter maybe that will get the ball rolling. That was my other daddy, the one I actually had! He missed 3 years never called me once to ask if I was ok. All my birthday's he missed out and the one day he come and giving us money money doesn't cover for all those days he missed out. I have a daughter who is now 23 never met her or know what she looks like, she was kind of stolen from me by her mother as she went back to her husband and agreed to bring the child up as his own, I had no say in there decision they made that was over 23 years ago, I was 22 at the time. I don't want to have a long story or discussion about him; I just want to know at least his name. And you weren't there to tell me I have to stand tall. Even if it was not really important to you, it was probably important to me. I knew I couldn't survive like this. I was making a bunch of new friends and wondering about the impact that they would all make on my life. We all are scared of something. A beautiful letter to a second dad. I'm willing to bet that if your dad had tried to be involved then you would not have appreciated a damn thing about it. Loving you is the only thing that makes life worth living. He says that to every other cousin of mine. He calls me whore for no reason. WebSubject: An Open Letter To The Dad I've Never Met From: Your Daughter Date: 12 May 2016 For nearly 20 years, I have known that half of my genetic makeup has been made up from you, yet I have never met you or even seen a picture of you to know where I come from. I will never allow you to take that away or hurt us any more than you already have. Common Mistakes: the word "i" should be capitalized, "u" is not a word, and "im" is spelled "I'm" or "I am". My Dad and I got in a huge fight last night and he told my mom that it was either going to be me or him that was going to die when he got ahold of me and he said he was for sure it wasn't going to be him. Trust me, your father will regret it. But its okay even though I no longer have a step dad I have to learn things from My mom my mom is the strongest person I know for playing both parts. He chose to be with his girlfriend who had already broken up with him twice, instead of being a parent to his baby girl. It helps me when I'm overthinking, or even thinking about my father, or anything. You might regret it. Web13. Will he love me? All I could do was continue to hold your hand, so I laid my head on your shoulders and we looked out the opening of the window in silence. "I'm deeply in love with you, and my only desire in this universe is to marry you," I told you. Physically, spiritually, and emotionally I felt as though I was as strong as ever. This poem touched my heart and there will never be enough thanks for the men who step up and become fathers and dads to children who otherwise would be without! My uncle taught me how to swim, way later than my cousins. I have three children now, but maybe you already know that. Find the right words to pen down the best letters to your wonderful father. She is so smart and kind, and looks so much like when I was her age, but I don't think you know that, since you aren't here to see me grow. To all of the young people, Never ever blame yourself. A child who learned quickly what a man was not supposed to be like. A child who learned quickly what a man was not supposed to be like. It's all about money and that's it. Dear Dad, Congratulations, you have a child-- a child who did great things without you. What is worst is that he has lived with me and doesn't know one thing about me. Find the right words to pen down the best letters to your wonderful father. I WAS DONE! I had the greatest dad in the world but I commiserate with you because I had a rotten husband who brought grief and death to our children. That might have been the best part of you finally moving out. I forgive you for never being there when I needed a dad and I forgive you for not being a true father figure in my life. WebAnd you weren't there to lift me up on a cloud. I have no family. It was hard on mom raising two kids on her own but better than the alternative. I remember some of the good times, but mostly the bad and the times that really destroyed me inside. But all is not lost. They were so friendly everywhere I went, from the small towns to the cities. I didnt want you to think I needed you. Trust me. I hope you are proud of me because everything I am doing is to show you that I did great things and accomplished my big dreams without you. Not only did he all of a sudden abandon me while cussing me out, he also chose to do so only 5 months after my older brother's passing from an overdose. I love this poem. Then he'll wait for you, baby. Your dad is missing out. Anyways, I write poetry as well. I had a horrible childhood. I don't expect much from him. For whatever reason, driving a race car was more important than my childhood. I know full well my daughters and sons feel this way. He has many of his own problems, but I just don't get it sometimes. I really relate to this story because, I'm a 12 year old girl, and my father has never been there for me. I didnt want you to win. I distinctly remember you walking out of my eighth-grade graduation dinner because you had a race that night. But it is still different- it is not normal- and sometimes it sucks being different. He acted like he wasn't going to do anything, but felt uncomfortable. I rate this poem 11/10. Eternity is something that exists and as believers we know we will be there someday, but we are never really striving for it. Even though you put me through a nightmare every time I would let you back into my life while you would just tear me down, I forgive you. Youd conveniently take a two week+ assignment, working on building homes. Wow this poem really touched me because I grew up with a step-dad and never knew my own real dadI rate this 5 stars STOP! My daughter sees my husband like her dad she calls him daddy!!. But the times that you wanted to be a Dad to me was bittersweet. The only difference was, that Saturday night was nothing like the rest. I wish my dad was there for me when I was born and to take care of me but he wasn't. I don't like uncertainty nor do I like being blindsided. And now he is moving back and acting like he missed nothing. Now I can let those times go. An Open Letter To The Dad Who Wasn't There, "Take A Note From Christina Yang---Encourage Girls To Focus On Their Brain Instead Of Their Beauty. We were able to breathe fresh air in our own home for the first time. Stay strong. I forgive you for never being by my side, and for abandoning me without explanation. Jennifer Kustanovich, SUNY Stony Brook5. It literally haunts me EVERYDAY. Ever hear of sacrifice? Day by day, my love for you becomes overwhelming, and I cant handle it when I dont see or even talk to you every day. I thought I would never forgive him for what he did. Dear Mom By
I know full well that after 17 years, I am no longer family. This really touched me tears were about to drop but not a single tear will I drop for the man who left me and my brothers behind. Sample letter to dad from daughter on his birthday Dear Dad, Happy Birthday! In fact, the last letter gave my mom the voice she needed to go through with the divorce. 3. Would I go again if I had the opportunity? I owe it to him and myself to let go of the resentment Ive held towards you for all of these years. He made lots of promises to me when I was younger and I believed in him. When I pushed for answers , all I ever get are more lies and disrespect. It was a Saturday night. WebIt hurts me that my mom has to play both partsmy mother and my father. Yay, we're so glad you're here! Back then I used to think, damn you really want me to earn everything I'm given. Always be you everything that your stepfather gave you everything that your dad could n't I know well. 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